When it’s time for that fairy tale wedding, many brides adopt traditions that have long been considered obligatory. You know those traditions, they usually result in awkward family memories and averted eyes. But fear not, we’ve singled out the ones that could use some rethinking. Keep in mind that some wedding traditions are unavoidable, such as drunken groomsmen dancing doing the chicken dance.

1.) The bouquet toss
It may seem like a sweet, harmless tradition that involves hopeful brides-to-be competing for the next shot at the altar. However, it usually ends up an awkward display of women who probably don’t want their “singleness” highlighted. Give us chronically single gals a break and let us avoid getting punched in the face over some flowers.

2.) Garter removal
This really doesn’t need a lot of explanation. Do you really want your family to witness your husband searching under your dress for a piece of lingerie? Brides tend to look uncomfortable throughout the whole process, and who really wants to catch that?

3.) Video montages
This is a somewhat new tradition, but it often comes off a little cheesy. A montage of dorky teen photos set to a Whitney Houston song just doesn’t do justice in representing a relationship.

4.) Matching Bridesmaids dresses
One size just doesn’t fit all when it comes to formal gowns. Your bridesmaids are a unique group of people with different styles and figures. Try giving them a color to work with and let them pick their own dresses. They’ll be thankful you gave them the options!

Keep in mind, it’s your wedding, and you get to follow the traditions you want. If you think something needs rethinking, nothing is set in stone. No wedding ritual is to dramatic or time honored to change up. Make your big day unique to you!

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In this slump of an economy, people have been opting for do-it-yourself projects.  But is your wedding day really a task you want you want to skip out on professional help?  Probably not, unless you don’t mind the late night battle with the glue gun finally realizing art class wasn’t your specialty. Along with dealing with the overbearing mother-in-law and sisters stating their every opinion. There are a number of reasons these included as to why you should go to rd I do for help and a wedding coordinator may become your fairy godmother. Here are 5 main ones that may just having you thinking:

1. For starters, this is most likely your first wedding and hopefully only.  For planners they have done enough to know the drill. They’ll remember the fine details, what looks best where, and the best time frame for each element.
2. They will stick to your budget. They’ll find you options within your budget and know the areas where there is room to splurge and which elements should be kept to the original plan.
3. Planners have established relationships with vendors and know which ones are the most efficient and cost-effective and who can get you the best deal.
4. Voice of reason.  For the endless debates on vanilla or chocolate they can find a happy medium to satisfy both the bride and the groom.
5. Peace of Mind. Simply meaning remembering the day of your wedding is YOUR day. You should be able to relax and enjoy it like the rest of the guests without having to worry about the last minute crisis that’s happening in the back.

It is a wonderful time to be a Michigander and what better way to celebrate than to incorporate Michigan made items into your wedding.    Each wedding ceremony begins with choosing the perfect location, whether it is lakeside on one of the Great Lakes or right here at Old Town Manor you can share Michigan’s true beauty with your out of town guests.  Even your dress can showcase the beauty and talent Michigan has to offer by selecting a handmade dress from one of Michigan’s original boutiques. 

A Michigan inspired menu could include the state fish, the Brook Trout, cherries, and let guests could sip on wine made from one of Michigan’s many vineyards or beer from a local brewing company such as Bell’s Brewery.  Parting gifts could include items made from this lovely state such as a bottle of wine, Faygo, maple syrup, etc. to keep guests loving everything Michigan has to offer long after your reception has ended.

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Planning a vegan wedding is a little more comprehensive than planning a regular wedding, but with good planning (and a great baker and chef) your guests probably won’t know the difference unless you tell them! Here’s a list of a few things to consider when setting out to have a cruelty-free event:

• Invitations - Finding eco-friendly papers and inks is getting easier and easier! Our designers at rd i do can point you in the right direction for starting your celebrations off as greenly as possible!

• Wedding Attire - Non-wool suits, satin rather than silk, and non-leather shoes will be a must. Start early, and try online retailers - there are lots of animal-friendly stores and fashion lines popping up.

• Food - Look for vegan chefs or restaurants that cater in your area. Or, since you’re footing the bill, a regular catering company can work with you on a animal-free menu that will be good enough to make your guests forget all about prime rib. Also, take into consideration what’s in season during your wedding, is it apple season? Or is asparagus abundant?

• Cake - Vegan cakes are possible, and extremely delicious. Again, you can find a vegan baker or bakery in your area, or coach a regular baker in the ways of vegan baking.

A vegan wedding may take a little more work, especially if you live somewhere with not a lot of vegan options in the area, but it is doable. Remember, the wedding is your special day, and it should reflect the things that are important to YOU, even if that means skipping the scallops.


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